Help! He Stopped Calling!

So you think that your boyfriend is avoiding me for some reason. Everything is completely normal then without notice he is ignoring or avoiding you. His phone is off, he hasn’t called, and he isn’t responding to text messages. What do you do???

My advice: Avoidance! Do not appear to be begging for attention. Do NOT appear desperate. He obviously thinks he has the upper-hand. If you are dating someone, notwithstanding external considerations, a daily contact should be expected.

If you make the daily contact, and you are speaking with a voice mail, then you had better back off until the other party makes an effort.

I know this is scary because it is a gamble, you risk losing contact with this person; however, if this person is contacting you at his leisure and only when it is convenient, do you really want to be forcing his attention on you? One cannot force a relationship.