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Friday, October 26, 2007

How to Make any Relationship Work – Victoria

A long time ago, a friend told me the secret to make any relationship work. “Do only things that will make the other person happy.” This advice provides for smooth sailing, but it does not always guarantee my personal peace.

Last week, I discovered that my boyfriend was partaking in some disapproving internet behavior. I was prepared to confront him last weekend, but before I could do so, a family issue arose that took priority. Finally, a week later the crisis has passed, and I can once again concentrate on the task at hand: addressing the boyfriend’s inappropriate internet usage.

So far other circumstances have prevented me from bring up the controversial internet behavior, which in turn has kept my boyfriend happy. Thus, our relationship is great. But I am still unsettled. I have to decide whether or not I want to rage like a bull in heat and confront him or sit back and see what other evidence presents itself.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

What exactly is "disapproving internet behavior"?

Do you mean "inappropriate"?

And, if so, what was inappropriate? Was it something bad, like pornograohy, or something positively unacceptable, something sickening, somethng so so awful to a woman that you could just kill the bastard,


like fantasy football?!!

american singles said...

What do you inappropriate? Could you explain what's that inappropriate thing that is. Expound it more further. Maybe I can help. But I tell you don't rush things up. Don't rage up. Why don't you talk to each other what problems you two have so you can solve it each other. Raging like a bull without no valid reason may end up to war. So you better don't rush things up for now.

Anonymous said...

The two of you should talk, confront him and tell him the things that bothers you. Understanding and trust is the key to make a relationship work. Be open to each other, don't just keep things to yourself coz it won't help. American Singles

Anonymous said...

Without trust no relationship will work,

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Better way is to be honest with your partner. The more you will confront , the more you will build your relationship

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