Yes, Males and Females ARE that Different

Anonymous has left a new comment on your post "Boyfriends are Not the Same as a Husbands":

Males and Females aren't that different... why is it the female’s responsibility to say NO when it comes to sex??? I’m a female and I love sex, and sometimes I can get out of control too...and I won't say NO, because I want it too. But there's no way a man will try to make me feel bad because HE thinks it went too far... if he really thinks it went too far, HE should have said NO. (Read full comment.)

Our response:

Of course women enjoy sex, as do males; however, history and clinical studies have demonstrated, over and over again that the respective sexes enjoy this act for different reasons, generally speaking.

If this were not the case, then I would like it explained to me why a female tends to get angry or hurt when after such an act, she does not hear from the male counterpart. Why is it that the male rarely cares much at all when he does not get that call the next day?

Recent studies have also shown that when a woman engages in such activity, there are chemical changes within her brain that create an instinct to stay with the person she was with. This does not occur in males, as far as can be demonstrated.

The consequences suffered by females who choose multiple partners are also more severe than what males are endure. Women are far more likely to contract disease, which, once contracted can do far more long-term damage to them physically. Women also risk pregnancy, a condition, as of yet, that men cannot suffer.

To deny these things is to deny nature, which, through either millions of years of evolution or through some form of intelligent design, has designed sex as a means of perpetuating the species. The "nesting instinct" usually found in normal women assures that after sex, she will put all else at risk to take care of what the act often creates: offspring.

The male's desire to attract multiple partners and his ability to impregnate many of them in one year is also designed to assure that the species survives, at all cost. Luckily society and demanding females, to some extent, force males to control their polygamous nature, and build a family, which is really what this whole sex thing is all about.